Sometimes though, you need to do something new to juice up the sex life a bit… so: the grapefruit technique. You don’t have to go wild in bed every time you have sex. We feel like we can barely make it into bed much less put on a show. Work, family, or just life, in general, gets to us. We all fall into sexual doldrums from time to time. Maybe it has been a while since you’ve been a little freaky, and you have a feeling that your partner feels things are a bit stale in your sexual techniques lately? Have you heard of The Grapefruit Technique in Bed?